Self-fulfilling prophecy..!

I found that listening to the news or watching it on a daily basis was a negative influence on my life. It was actually influencing my outlook on life.
Like an AIRCEL ad- Only 1411 tigers are left in India..Count not increasing.What does that mean?May be the male tigers are either using contraceptives or the female tigers using Unmwanted pills.Or people in Bangladesh still abusing in the name of Taslima Nasreen.
Well those perceptions that we allow ourselves then,are those that are consistent with our expectations and attitudes.

Life reflecting and pouring tonnes of problems in the day can be in the form of our forgetness,forgiveness,faithfulness and failurness.It goes sky when a problem grows polar and regret the blame of an archive.Quitter can be one thin jinx taken fore granted.Having something for the other which cannot be explained and expressed can be an another quitter.Now reminiscing the thaughts of my 16 yr life experience fetch me something very interesting about the parcels of my opposite sex.(i'm a male and a straight by orientation)

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"A female gal has a close male friend.Its been a long time that they are together (as friends).Quite astonishingly it means that he is probably interested in her, 'that' is why he hangs around her so much.But like every gal she sees him strictly as a friend even they hang on a same ride.This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic."

And then the boy getting rejected glazes for vengance.He rains the gal (who is his friend or not still remains a riddle) with questions.Like why,why and why,???Tries every niche to flaunt the gal but fails at every edge!

And at last the boy quits in regret and rigour....Riguor because the next day he finds a new one...


Concluded that,gals see what they expect to see, experience what they expect to experience, and achieve what they expect to achieve.

Therefore, when we expect to fail, this often becomes a "self-fulfilling prophecy".